When do you meet?

We meet on the 1st and 3rd Thursday of each month from 6:00pm - 7:30pm.

We often continue fellowship by going out to dinner together after our meeting.

What if there is a 5th Thursday in the month?

There is not an additional meeting to account for the larger gap. We will meet again on the 1st Thursday of the following month.

Where do you meet?

We meet in Rohnert Park, but to ensure the safety and privacy of all of our members, we do not publicly disclose our meeting location. If you would like to attend a meeting, please contact us at for more information.

Are there any requirements for attending meetings?

The only requirement is the desire to heal from trauma associated with a partner’s sexual addiction and/or compulsive behavior.

Are there any fees to join PASA?

There are no fees or dues. Our group self-supporting from voluntary contributions by members.

I think my spouse/partner has a problem with sex addiction. What can I do?

The first step is to take care of your self. Find support, seek help through counseling, and gather information where you can. PASA is a great place to start. As for your partner, the responsibility of seeking help to treat their addiction lies with them, and you cannot force them to do so. Until your partner admits the problem and has a desire to address it, all you can do is set upon the journey to find your own path to healing. Your own wellbeing should come first and foremost —always— regardless of what your partner chooses to do.

Can I talk to someone before attending a meeting? How do I get in touch?

Yes, of course! We would love to connect with you and answer any other questions you may have, or offer any support we can.

Please e-mail us at, or find us on Facebook (for everyone’s privacy, this is a closed group, which means you will be able to find our group and request to join, but no one outside of group membership can see group activity or who members are - not even your friends).